18 May 2020

A “better” person can be a lot of things, but at its core, it means to become the true version of yourself, that’s deep down. Allowing yourself, your personality, your character, your strengths and weaknesses to shine.

Self development is all about you deciding to become the best version of yourself, and it is a lifelong process as the person you were 10 years ago is completely different from who you are today. Thus, you have to make the effort to want it and make it happen. 

For that, I believe these are different mindsets  you need to adopt for making several conscious decisions to your existing lifestyle that will help you grow in every area of your life. 

1. Discipline yourself:

   
   It might be really hard but you have to program your mind for what you want, by establishing new habits from the time you wake up to sun down. Breaking bad habits is not easy but you have to start applying repetition to break it off
   
   

        ”THROUGH SELF-DISCIPLINE COMES FREEDOM.” -ARISTOTLE

   
   
   

2.  Self awareness and self acceptance:  

   
   Be honest with yourself, self-awareness is the single most important element required for growth and development because Change starts by identifying what works and what doesn’t. 

   From there, you start taking in and off what doesn’t apply to you anymore.
   
   

3. Self confidence: 

   
   Lacking confidence is easily that thing which kills your personal development. It often means having a very low opinion of yourself. There is only one way to move forward.  Cultivate self love is the single most important thing to do for yourself.
   
   

4. Don't compare your journey to someone: 

   
   You are unique, you have a unique personality with character traits, a unique upbringing and unique experiences, but guess what? No one is perfect. 
   We each have a different path and journey to follow in life. 
   You are you. You are unique. Therefore your life is unique to YOU and your journey will be different than ANYONE.
   
   

5. Educate yourself

   
   The more you learn, the more power you give yourself to progress at a faster rate. There are so many incredible resources out there that can help you fastback your personal development journey. 
   In conclusion, there are many ways to completely transform yourself, the main key is to know your why and make meaningful.

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Natacha MABOMA

Graduated from Howard University with a concentration in Politics Science. "A digital nomad who loves to travel and learn about new cultures and also Passionate about the environment."

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